Money and Relationship

There are no secrets that a couple argues. According to the studying conducted last year that arguments always come once every two weeks in the average couples in the country. As the matter of fact, most of the spats they are experiencing are one of the temporary conflicts that might result in a bigger problem if not addressed properly. Disagreement is often resolved with an apology with a sustained effort.

On the other way around, arguments that are lasting are the hardest thing to resolve especially if the issue is about mighty dollars. Example, an unresolved issue about wedding cake toppers which made them sinking on their debts that could have been resolved if it was properly addressed. In Harris Interactive poll for men, where there are 38 percent of the total respondents say that money is the root cause of marital strife that may even end up in a broken family. We cannot deny the fact that sometimes, money is a big value of stuff you have nowadays. It is because people work hard to have it.

People studied for their courses for many years so that the time they will be employed, they can have all the money they want. Even if some authors contradict on this idea, this is still the reality that all of us cannot deny. Money is a great importance in a married life especially if the family is just starting. Money is the foundation of starting family. You cannot start a family without money because there is no wedding or wedding fans without it, you cannot make a child without it because pregnancy implies a lot of money, you cannot raise a child without it because a growing child has a growing needs that is supplemented not by love alone, and most of all you cannot survive without money because the day to day experiences you have requires money enable to move and compete on this changing world. That is why when a relationship is threatened because of a money issue, nobody can ever solve or fix it because money in nature is the source of all evils as well.

The tip here is not letting the money be the center and the control of the issue. Money is a tangible concept, and anything that is tangible is achievable if we try to work on it. Focus on the things which are not tangible such as the love and affection you have shared over the years of marriage. That is more important than money. Money is always an issue but if we try to solve it without arguing to each other, we can resolve it and help save and preserve our marriage. There are a lot of ways which we can solve conflicting money issues.

We can resolve it through our significant support systems, our nearest relatives or our closest friends. They are the one who is always there for us, willing to lend a hand in times of trouble. Do not keep the problem within you that as if you’re the only man in this world who has that kind of problem. Do not equate financial aspect superior than your self worth. Cheer up! There are so many ways to solve an issue especially if it is all about money.